The people around you shape you. Their attitudes seep into yours. Their standards become your standards. Their ambitions influence your ambitions.
This is not weakness. It is how humans work. We are social creatures, calibrated by our environment. The question is whether you choose that environment or let it happen by default.
Curate your relationships intentionally. Seek people who inspire and challenge you. Limit time with those who drain or diminish you. This is not coldness. It is wisdom about influence.
Who influences you, and is that influence serving you well?