Most listening is just waiting to speak. The other person talks while you prepare your response. Their words register but their meaning does not fully land.
Real listening is different. It requires setting aside your agenda temporarily. Hearing not just words but meaning. Noticing not just content but emotion. Being present instead of preparing.
This kind of listening is rare, which makes it valuable. The person who truly listens stands out. Relationships deepen. Understanding increases. Conflicts resolve more easily.
In your next conversation, can you listen without planning your response?